Saturday, April 14, 2012
Friday, April 13, 2012
Family Update
A big thanks to all of you that have sent us encouragement in different ways - phone calls, cards, emails, and visits. We appreciate your support during our transition. Here is a little update on our situation.
Trevor's last day of work was March 31st. We took a little family trip to Grand Forks for a few nights, and spent most of our time swimming, eating, or shopping. The kids loved it and it was very relaxing for us to get away. We spent the last 5 days visiting with my parents on the farm. It has been great fun to take it easy and be away for a little while. The farm is always a comforting place to be. We took a day trip to PVBC and that was great. What a wonderful place that God has built there!
Every one asks us about our future plans. To that we say, "We are waiting". Trevor and I both have a peace about our decision to wait before making any big decisions. We feel like we have been rushing ahead of God, making plans, then asking him to bless them. We want to change that. He knows best and we are going to take the opportunity to search for his direction.
The problem is that both Trevor and I are planners. We like to organize, plan ahead, and then have a back up plan should things not pan out. (I guess camp and youth ministries have taught us that) God has asked us to wait and trust him, and it is testing me incredibly! I have had to make a conscious effort to push some thoughts out of my head and just wait. It doesn't mean we are waiting for a lightning bolt from heaven or a sign in the sky, but once it is time to move forward God will make that clear. This I am certain of!
We wanted to be intentional about our healing during this month, so we are not just taking trips and spend time away from home. Trevor and I are heading off to Abbotsford at the end of April for a retreat run by Power To Change. We are excited about the trip, but it involves leaving our Children in Manitoba for a week while we are gone. I have no doubts in their babysitter's abilities, but I have never been away from them for this long before and it makes me nervous just thinking about it.
So that is what we have been up to and what is on the horizon. If you wish to pray for us there is a short list of prayer requests below. Again thank you to all of you for your encouragment and prayers. - Jamie -
Prayer requests
- Wisdom for Trevor as he thinks about what type of job he would like to pursue and where.
- Patience for us both
- Safety for our family as we will be apart from the kids for a week
- That April can be a time of healing and renewal for our family
Trevor's last day of work was March 31st. We took a little family trip to Grand Forks for a few nights, and spent most of our time swimming, eating, or shopping. The kids loved it and it was very relaxing for us to get away. We spent the last 5 days visiting with my parents on the farm. It has been great fun to take it easy and be away for a little while. The farm is always a comforting place to be. We took a day trip to PVBC and that was great. What a wonderful place that God has built there!
Every one asks us about our future plans. To that we say, "We are waiting". Trevor and I both have a peace about our decision to wait before making any big decisions. We feel like we have been rushing ahead of God, making plans, then asking him to bless them. We want to change that. He knows best and we are going to take the opportunity to search for his direction.
The problem is that both Trevor and I are planners. We like to organize, plan ahead, and then have a back up plan should things not pan out. (I guess camp and youth ministries have taught us that) God has asked us to wait and trust him, and it is testing me incredibly! I have had to make a conscious effort to push some thoughts out of my head and just wait. It doesn't mean we are waiting for a lightning bolt from heaven or a sign in the sky, but once it is time to move forward God will make that clear. This I am certain of!
We wanted to be intentional about our healing during this month, so we are not just taking trips and spend time away from home. Trevor and I are heading off to Abbotsford at the end of April for a retreat run by Power To Change. We are excited about the trip, but it involves leaving our Children in Manitoba for a week while we are gone. I have no doubts in their babysitter's abilities, but I have never been away from them for this long before and it makes me nervous just thinking about it.
So that is what we have been up to and what is on the horizon. If you wish to pray for us there is a short list of prayer requests below. Again thank you to all of you for your encouragment and prayers. - Jamie -
Prayer requests
- Wisdom for Trevor as he thinks about what type of job he would like to pursue and where.
- Patience for us both
- Safety for our family as we will be apart from the kids for a week
- That April can be a time of healing and renewal for our family
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Sunday, March 25, 2012
I found a photocopied page from a devotional book stuck in my front door the other day. Author unknown.
If none of God's saints were poor and tired, we wouldn't know half so well the consolations of divine grace. When we find a homeless wanderer with nowhere to stay who still trusts in the Lord; when we see a destitute person going hungry who still glories in Jesus; or when we see a bereaved widow overwhelmed in affliction who still has faith in Christ-oh! What honor it gives to the Gospel.
God's grace is illustrated and magnified in the afflictions and trials of believers. Saints bear up under every discouragement, believing that all things work together for their good. They believe that out of apparent evils a real blessing will ultimately spring-that their God will either work a deliverance for them speedily, or most assuredly support them in it. This patience of the saints proves the power of divine grace.
When everything is calm I can't tell how strong a house is built-a storm must rage and beat against it before I'll know it's strength. So it is with the Spirit's work. If it wasn't on many occasions surrounded by a storm, we wouldn't know that it was true and strong. If the winds didn't blow upon it, we wouldn't know how firm and secure it was. The masterworks of God are those saints who stand steadfast and unmovable in the midst of difficulties. Those who would glorify God must expect many trials. There are no great victories without great battles. So if your life is full of trials, rejoice, because you will all the more experience the all-sufficient grace and power of the Lord.
My Grace is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9)
If none of God's saints were poor and tired, we wouldn't know half so well the consolations of divine grace. When we find a homeless wanderer with nowhere to stay who still trusts in the Lord; when we see a destitute person going hungry who still glories in Jesus; or when we see a bereaved widow overwhelmed in affliction who still has faith in Christ-oh! What honor it gives to the Gospel.
God's grace is illustrated and magnified in the afflictions and trials of believers. Saints bear up under every discouragement, believing that all things work together for their good. They believe that out of apparent evils a real blessing will ultimately spring-that their God will either work a deliverance for them speedily, or most assuredly support them in it. This patience of the saints proves the power of divine grace.
When everything is calm I can't tell how strong a house is built-a storm must rage and beat against it before I'll know it's strength. So it is with the Spirit's work. If it wasn't on many occasions surrounded by a storm, we wouldn't know that it was true and strong. If the winds didn't blow upon it, we wouldn't know how firm and secure it was. The masterworks of God are those saints who stand steadfast and unmovable in the midst of difficulties. Those who would glorify God must expect many trials. There are no great victories without great battles. So if your life is full of trials, rejoice, because you will all the more experience the all-sufficient grace and power of the Lord.
Friday, March 2, 2012
Jack and Sam
Brook is in Brandon visiting with Ken and Judy, so Jack and Sam had some quality time together. They played for at least 1/2 hour yesterday evening.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
How God “reacts” to us in our pain.
The last few weeks I have been learning a lot. I am finding that the relationship between a child and a parent is much the same as the relationship between us and God. There are obvious flaws in the simile, but I believe we can learn a lot from it.
Last week Jack was toddling around the living room. I had been trying to keep him up until nap time and I could tell he was getting tired. All of the sudden he tripped on the edge of the carpet and hit the bridge of his nose on the edge of the coffee table. The sound of the collision was horrible. I rushed to him, scooped him up in my arms and did my best to comfort him as he wailed. His nose bled a little bit, but he must have cried inconsolably for at least 5 minutes. That was a very long 5 minutes. He ended up with a puffy nose and a bruise that ran down the side of his nose and under one eye. He survived.
When we are in impossible pain (for whatever reason) does God react the way I did? Rushing in, scooping us up in his arms? I believe so. There are people who suffer unimaginable pain, and all they can do is rest in Gods arms and cry for that very long 5 minutes. Much like Jack, some of us are tired even before we suffer great pain. The way that my son clung to me is how I want to cling to God in my time of need.
Obviously there are some flaws in this comparison. God foresees our pain, and disaster in the way a parent cannot. Why does God not stop the chain of events? I believe sometimes he does, but pain is a very good teacher. There are some lessons to be learned that only pain can teach us. Jack is much more careful around the edge of the carpet now. The saying “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” used to bug me. Being beat up just makes you weak right? Perhaps being beat up makes you smarter, not necessarily stronger. Maybe being beat up makes your faith stronger, and that is more important than your comfort.
Brook pushed Jack down the other day. I obviously had to deal with the perpetrator of the crime, but as the victim Jack sat on the floor crying, waiting to be comforted. He was not hurt, he just wanted to be scooped up and comforted. I refused. I told him “you are a big boy, get up, lets go” and I walked away. He wailed as if his face had met the coffee table again. How dare I leave him in his time of need! God can gauge our pain. He knows how strong we are, or if we are just a drama queen in need of an audience. I'm still working through all of this, but I think in our pain we demand that God serve us in the time and manner that we request, and when he doesn't we question his love, his motives, and his sovereignty.
Last week Jack was toddling around the living room. I had been trying to keep him up until nap time and I could tell he was getting tired. All of the sudden he tripped on the edge of the carpet and hit the bridge of his nose on the edge of the coffee table. The sound of the collision was horrible. I rushed to him, scooped him up in my arms and did my best to comfort him as he wailed. His nose bled a little bit, but he must have cried inconsolably for at least 5 minutes. That was a very long 5 minutes. He ended up with a puffy nose and a bruise that ran down the side of his nose and under one eye. He survived.
When we are in impossible pain (for whatever reason) does God react the way I did? Rushing in, scooping us up in his arms? I believe so. There are people who suffer unimaginable pain, and all they can do is rest in Gods arms and cry for that very long 5 minutes. Much like Jack, some of us are tired even before we suffer great pain. The way that my son clung to me is how I want to cling to God in my time of need.
Obviously there are some flaws in this comparison. God foresees our pain, and disaster in the way a parent cannot. Why does God not stop the chain of events? I believe sometimes he does, but pain is a very good teacher. There are some lessons to be learned that only pain can teach us. Jack is much more careful around the edge of the carpet now. The saying “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” used to bug me. Being beat up just makes you weak right? Perhaps being beat up makes you smarter, not necessarily stronger. Maybe being beat up makes your faith stronger, and that is more important than your comfort.
Brook pushed Jack down the other day. I obviously had to deal with the perpetrator of the crime, but as the victim Jack sat on the floor crying, waiting to be comforted. He was not hurt, he just wanted to be scooped up and comforted. I refused. I told him “you are a big boy, get up, lets go” and I walked away. He wailed as if his face had met the coffee table again. How dare I leave him in his time of need! God can gauge our pain. He knows how strong we are, or if we are just a drama queen in need of an audience. I'm still working through all of this, but I think in our pain we demand that God serve us in the time and manner that we request, and when he doesn't we question his love, his motives, and his sovereignty.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Prayer Request
Today we found out that two grade 9 girls from our youth group were killed in a snowmobile accident. The specific details have not been released about the accident yet.
This evening Trevor is visiting with youth and doing what he can to ease some of the pain and answer questions. He has been asked to go to the school tomorrow and be available for grief counselling for the students. Please pray for wisdom for him as he has never done this before. Please pray for the families involved. One girl is from a single parent home, it was just the teen and her mother. The other girl is an exchange student from Mexico and I cannot imagine how hard it will be for them to deal with this at a distance.
Trevor was scheduled to go on a missions trip to Mexico on Wednesday, but it looks as though that will no longer be happening.
Jamie
This evening Trevor is visiting with youth and doing what he can to ease some of the pain and answer questions. He has been asked to go to the school tomorrow and be available for grief counselling for the students. Please pray for wisdom for him as he has never done this before. Please pray for the families involved. One girl is from a single parent home, it was just the teen and her mother. The other girl is an exchange student from Mexico and I cannot imagine how hard it will be for them to deal with this at a distance.
Trevor was scheduled to go on a missions trip to Mexico on Wednesday, but it looks as though that will no longer be happening.
Jamie
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